X-Rayed Sex: “I Don’t Believe In Total Bottoms”

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a bi-monthly column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. GOTCHA! I'm sure the initial read of that title had some of you fuming. Especially if youContinue reading "X-Rayed Sex: “I Don’t Believe In Total Bottoms”"

Sunday (10.13.2019)

SUNDAY (10.13.2019): Battle Hymn at Flash Factory, a special performance art presentation at The Rosemont from Untitled Queen; Vivacious at ReBar; Gloria Swansong as Judy Garland at Stonewall, followed by Inita D's Invasion; Brolesque & and underwear party at Bedlam; and more! UPTOWN / BRONX BOXERS WH: DJ Max Damian (10pm) HELL’S KITCHEN HARDWARE: BritaContinue reading "Sunday (10.13.2019)"

On Point With: Jax

Drag artist, dancer and photographer--the Connecticut-born and self-described "Orange Oompa-Loompa" Jax brings a unique and refreshing perspective to the Astoria scene. and to New York City nightlife. Thotyssey: Jax, hello! I see you were kiki'ing at Icon with JanSport last night, was that fun? Jax: A kiki at Icon is always a fun time! ItContinue reading "On Point With: Jax"

Saturday (10.12.2019)

SATURDAY (10.12.2019): Horse Meat Disco at Elsewhere; Nicky Doll at Metro; Dusty Ray Bottoms & Alexis Michelle at Albatross; a ballroom event at Playstation Theatre; Homo Erectus Burlesque & Catrina Lovelace's RIOT at Stonewall; Marg-OH! Channing's new show at Pangea premieres; Fake Nudes at The Rosemont; King Size Queen at Nowhere; and more! UPTOWN /Continue reading "Saturday (10.12.2019)"

On Point With: Jette Grey

This sexy, stylish showgirl is fairly new to the scene, but is already making waves as The Rosemont's new karaoke hostess. Thotyssey is all aboard with Jette Grey! Thotyssey: Hello Jette, happy Nice Day In October! How prepared are you for Halloween right now? Jette Grey: Haha! Not at all, honestly. I hear you! It'sContinue reading "On Point With: Jette Grey"

Wake Up, Bitch! (10.12-13.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY BOXERS HK : Brunch CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch HASWELL GREENS (HK): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz & Maddelynn Hatter HONEYWELL (UWS): Brunch with Lagoona Bloo & Rosé MAIZAL (Astoria): Brunch with Audrey Phoenix, Patsy InDecline & Ducky Sheaboi MARIA PIA (HK): Brunch with Tina Burner LAContinue reading "Wake Up, Bitch! (10.12-13.2019)"

Friday (10.11.2019)

FRIDAY (10.11.2019): Stephanie's Child have a concert at Sony Hall; HARDER has its 4th anniversary at 3 Dollar Bill, while Ty Sunderland's "Heaven on Earth" turns two at China Chalet; a XOXA event at Wonderville; the finale of "The Simsinz" at the Beechman; Gilda Wabbit brings a new show to the Duplex; Maddelynn Hatter & HorrorchataContinue reading "Friday (10.11.2019)"

Thursday (10.10.2019)

THURSDAY (10.10.2019): Drag Race UK viewing parties; a new night hosted by Rify Royalty & Izzy Uncut begins at Rise; Tina Burner, Bootsie LeFaris & Tammy Spanx premiere "Witch Perfect" at Club Cumming; Alotta McGriddles & Acid Betty host a Halloween auction at Metro; Ike Avelli's "Lube: A Gay-sical" opens at the Beechman; Vivacious joinsContinue reading "Thursday (10.10.2019)"

Wednesday (10.9.2019)

WEDNESDAY (10.9.2019): A new weekly premieres at the Rosé Mansion starring Ritzy Bitz, Adriana Trenta & Nicole Onoscopi; a new round of Madame Vivien V's Hot Mess at House of Yes; Miss Gay America Pattaya Hart rejoins Holly Dae at Monster; and more! UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: Karaoke with Jackie Dupree (9pm) WEST END: Selma Nilla (9pm);Continue reading "Wednesday (10.9.2019)"

Monday (10.7.2019)

MONDAY (10.7.2019): "Three Tall Queens" returns to The Duplex, starring Chandilear, Lauren Ordair & Whendy Whaxwood; a new BPM from Will Sheridan and company at Metro; Marti Cummings' penultimate Stage Fright at Therapy; and more! UPTOWN TOOLBOX: Charity bingo (9pm) SUITE: Glam Gavin’s karaoke (10pm) ALIBI: "Man Crush Mondays" (10pm) WEST END: TBA HELL’S KITCHEN BOXERSContinue reading "Monday (10.7.2019)"

Bar Babe of the Month: Taylor-Rey at The Duplex

Don't let her adorable bunny upstage her... Taylor-Rey is the True Queen of The Duplex! Bar that I work at: The Duplex Cabaret & Piano Bar How long I've worked there: Just about 2 years What are my shifts: Sunday Night, Monday Happy Hour (But I stay late to sing and DRANKK) and Thursday NightContinue reading "Bar Babe of the Month: Taylor-Rey at The Duplex"

Saturday (10.5.2019)

SATURDAY (10.5.2019): The Eagle NYC presents the Mr. Eagle 2020 competition; Mr. Heart of NY is sashed at Rockbar; DJ Keoki spins a ComicCon afterparty at Tailor PH; YAS MAMA at C'Mon Everybody; all-star DJs at Avant Gardner;  a "Dirty Dancing" burlesque tribute at The Triad; Audrey Phoenix's birthday roast at Albatross; Glace Chase's final MetropolitanContinue reading "Saturday (10.5.2019)"

On Point With: Amber Guesa

Taste this hamburger, Mary! One of the movers and shakers of the growing Westchester drag scene, this Hudson Valley-born queen is now becoming a presence right here in NYC. Save your appetite for the juicy Amber Guesa! Thotyssey: Hello Amber! OMG it’s autumn for realz today, how do you like it? Amber Guesa: Hey Jim!Continue reading "On Point With: Amber Guesa"

Wake Up, Bitch! (10.5-6.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY BOXERS HK : Brunch CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch COWGIRL SEAHORSE (SSSeaport): Brunch with Blake Deadly & Marti Gould Cummings DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch DOYLERS 37 (Chelsea): Brunch with Jacklynn Hyde ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch HASWELL GREENS (HK): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz KING'S (JH, Qns): *NEW* Brunch with King IvyContinue reading "Wake Up, Bitch! (10.5-6.2019)"

Friday (10.4.2019)

FRIDAY (10.4.2019): DJ Kristian Narn aka HODOR spins Schimanski; a new 12:12 from Ladyfag & company at Open House; Holly Box-Springs joins "Distorted Diznee" at the Beechman; Viva Vidalia & Lilith LeFae's final Rockbar show; Maddelynn Hatter performs at Club Cumming; Rify Royalty and two Sterlings at The Vault; Tina Burner at Feathers; and more!Continue reading "Friday (10.4.2019)"

Thursday (10.3.2019)

THURSDAY (10.3.2019): Thotyssey's Thot Mess returns to ReBar with She'Knead ThisGig & Nico Gonzalez; "Drag Race UK" premieres with several viewing parties across town; Straight Acting turns 5 at Metropolitan; a new cycle of the Ultimate Drag Pageant premieres at The West End; Bella Noche debuts a new Long Island weekly; the finale of ShaneContinue reading "Thursday (10.3.2019)"

On Point With: King Ivy

It's hard to believe that one so young could have so many years of performing under her belt, but this queen is practically a veteran of the scene. Slender, colorful and tough as nails, this dancing fashionista has been through several incarnations and survived both a tough neighborhood and the chaos that was the last daysContinue reading "On Point With: King Ivy"