New Year’s Eve (12.31.2019)

TUESDAY (12.31.2019): All the New Years Eve events in NYC, by neighborhood. UPTOWN HELL’S KITCHEN EAST SIDE CHELSEA WEST VILLAGE EAST VILLAGE LOWER MANHATTAN BROOKLYN QUEENS LONG ISLAND WESTCHESTER NEW JERSEY   See Full List

Monday (12.30.2019)

MONDAY (12.30.2019): Brenda Dharling & DJ T-Boy return to the West Village with the premiere of “House Down Boots” at the new Playhouse; Kandy Muse joins the DragTimes queens at The Ritz; Kizha Carr hosts a benefit at Therapy; Marti Gould Cummings & Jackie Cox are back with Paige Turner at Hardware; and more! UPTOWNContinue reading “Monday (12.30.2019)”

Sunday (12.29.2019)

SUNDAY (12.29.2019): Look Queen finally returns to the West Village, now hosted by Sherry Pie at the new Playhouse; POSE’s Dominique Jackson hosts Dreamland at PHD; Batle Hymn at Flash Factory; Misty Mountains Invades Stonewall; and more! UPTOWN / BRONX BOXERS WH: DJ Max Damian (10pm) HELL’S KITCHEN RISE: Holly Box-Springs (6pm) HARDWARE: Brita Filter & JasmineContinue reading “Sunday (12.29.2019)”

On Point With: Madison Mansfield

A former Empress (twice!) and all-around prominent member of the Imperial Court of New York, this glamour girl has been there and done that. But there’s still much more to come from the marvelous Ms. Madison Mansfield… starting with New Years Eve! Thotyssey: Hello Madison! So, 2019 is nearly over… can you believe it? MadisonContinue reading “On Point With: Madison Mansfield”

Saturday (12.28.2019)

SATURDAY (12.28.2019): Brita Filter & Jasmine Rice perform for the grand opening of the Playhouse in the West Village; circuit parties in Brooklyn include MEAT (3 Dollar Bill), VIVA (Avant Gardner) and ANUBIS (Quantum); Maddelynn Hatter hosts a night at C’Mon Everybody; Rify Royalty & Horrorchata present a winter kiki at Venus In Furs; DoubleContinue reading “Saturday (12.28.2019)”

ThotLight On: The Playhouse Sneak Peek (12.27.2019)

This weekend, a long-standing gap in our city’s nightlife is finally going to be filled. And before you get too lost in pondering a possible double meaning of that sentence, let’s make it clear that the Playhouse will open in the West Village on the final site of Boots & Saddle Drag Lounge, a pioneeringContinue reading “ThotLight On: The Playhouse Sneak Peek (12.27.2019)”

Wake Up, Bitch! (12.28-29.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY BOXERS HK : Brunch CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch HASWELL GREENS (HK): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz K RICO (HK): Brunch with Tina Burner MAIZAL (Astoria): Brunch with Audrey Phoenix, Patsy InDecline & Ducky Sheaboi LA PULPERIA EAST (UES): Brunch with Nicole OnoscopiContinue reading “Wake Up, Bitch! (12.28-29.2019)”

Friday (12.27.2019)

FRIDAY (12.27.2019): Fan favorite underground party GHE20G0TH1K returns tonight, at 3 Dollar Bill; 12:12 at Open House; Round 1 of the Lil Mx Bitch pageant tonight at Dromedary Bar; DILF & Pup Night at The Eagle NYC; The Illustrious Blacks spin Diana vs. Donna at C’Mon Everybody; NIPPLES moves to Bedlam; STR8 TO DVD atContinue reading “Friday (12.27.2019)”

Thursday (12.26.2019)

THURSDAY (12.26.2019): Maddelynn Hatter & Astrud Aurelia premiere a new show at Rockbar, a Madonnathon at Rise, Phi Phi O’Hara joins a NYE edition of QUEEN at Industry, Mariah Carey parties at Metro & The Rosemont, Freak-Out at Stonewall, and more! UPTOWN WEST END: Kiki Ball-Change with Boyish Charm & Sterling (9pm); Sequoia (10pm) BOXERS WH: “Show MeContinue reading “Thursday (12.26.2019)”

Christmas Day (12.25.2019)

WEDNESDAY (12.25.2019): Merry Christmas from Thotyssey!  (We’ll add events as they are confirmed.) HELL’S KITCHEN HARDWARE: Skye Walker & Elektra Lite with Vix & Micah Stanford (10pm) POSH: Octavia Anyae & Kristy Blaze  (10pm) RITZ: REIGN drag competition hosted by Pattaya Hart & Andora Tetee (10pm) CHELSEA BARRACUDA: Tina Burner & Holly Box-Springs with Yasmin Delano (11pm) WEST VILLAGE STONEWALL:Continue reading “Christmas Day (12.25.2019)”

Christmas Eve (12.24.2019)

TUESDAY (12.24.2019): HEBRO’s annual Jewbilee at Stage 48; Lagoona Bloo fills in at Hardware; Vanna Deux joins Boudoir LeFleur at Pieces; Misty Mountains & Ritzy Bitz perform their new single at Icon; and more! (Lots of events still TBA) UPTOWN EVO LOUNGE: Enigma Tuesdays (8pm) WEST END: Corma Kelley (8pm) BOXERS WH: Karaoke with Sucia (9pm)Continue reading “Christmas Eve (12.24.2019)”

Monday (12.23.2019)

MONDAY (12.29.2019): A Christmas revue hosted by Emi Grate at the Vault features Martyr & Senerio; Marti Gould Cummings & Jackie Cox join Paige Turner at Hardware; Victoria Chase guest hosts karaoke at Suite; a Long Island drag competition at Revolution; Kyle Motsinger performs at Taszo; and more! UPTOWN TASZO: Kyle Motsinger’s Holiday (7pm) TOOLBOX:Continue reading “Monday (12.23.2019)”

Sunday (12.22.2019)

SUNDAY (12.22.2019): It’s The Vault’s holiday party, featuring a special Christmas edition of Thotyssey’s Viva & A Diva starring Viva Vidalia & Neon Calypso! Meanwhile: Miss Monster 2020, Jayse Vegas & Robert Garcia’s show at 3 Dollar Bill; Jackie Beat at the Beechman; Lola Michele-Kiki Invades Stonewall; a holiday concert at St. John’s Church onContinue reading “Sunday (12.22.2019)”

Saturday (12.21.2019)

SATURDAY (12.21.2019): Stephanie’s Child perform a Christmas show at Green Room 42; a holiday Be Cute at Littlefiled; CALIBR at Rebar; Jackie Beat at the Beechman; Doris Dear & Hedda Lettuce at the Triad; Sherry Vine & The Pan Asian Revue at Club Cumming; Dusty Ray Bottoms, Alexis Michelle & Sapphira Cristal at Albatross; TheContinue reading “Saturday (12.21.2019)”

Wake Up, Bitch! (12.21-22.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY BOXERS HK : Brunch CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch HASWELL GREENS (HK): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz & Misty Mountains K RICO (HK): Brunch with Tina Burner MAIZAL (Astoria): Brunch with Audrey Phoenix, Patsy InDecline & Ducky Sheaboi LA PULPERIA EAST (UES): BrunchContinue reading “Wake Up, Bitch! (12.21-22.2019)”

Friday (12.20.2019)

FRIDAY (12.20.2019):  KUNST at Elsewhere; The Rosemont’s 3rd Anniversary; Doris Dear & Hedda Lettuce at The Triad; Heidi Haux at Broadway Comedy Club; Jackie Beat at the Beechman; Bear Milk at The Deep End; and more! UPTOWN / BRONX TRIAD: The Doris Dear Christmas Special (7pm); Hedda Lettuce Christmas Show (9:30pm) BOXERS WH: DJ MKContinue reading “Friday (12.20.2019)”

Thursday (12.19.2019)

THURSDAY (12.19.2019): The final Thot Mess of 2019 is a holiday edition featuring The Voice’s Nedra Belle; LESLIE at The Vault; “A Doris Dear Christmas Special” premieres at the Triad; Paige Turner’s finale of “Jingle All The Way” at Green Room 42; holiday editions of QUEEN at Industry and TORCH at Macri Park; Mattachine atContinue reading “Thursday (12.19.2019)”

Wednesday (12.18.2019)

WEDNESDAY (12.18.2019):  “The Devil Wears Nada” naked party at Bedlam; DIZZY holiday goth party at Nowhere; Dezi 5 performs for the David Drumgold Variety show at MMAC; Hedda Lettuce screens “Auntie Mame” at Village East Cinema; Michael Cavadias & Miss Guy spin at Gospel; Shanita Bump & Jax are with Devo Monique & Lady SimonContinue reading “Wednesday (12.18.2019)”

X-Rayed Sex: “The 2 Different Blowjobs”

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a bi-monthly column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. Recently, it has gotten to a frustrating point of how my ass seems to make a goodContinue reading “X-Rayed Sex: “The 2 Different Blowjobs””