Tuesday (4.30.2019)

  TUESDAY (4.30.2019):  At Rockbar, Coco Taylor & Nicole Onoscopi host a country-themed show featuring several queens benefiting The Center; the monthly Leg Up On Lif edrag benefit at Suite Bar; Ariana ticket giveaways at The Ritz; BEEF at Bizarre; Chauncey Dandridge’s FREAK OUT at Stonewall followed by Polish The Queen; and more! UPTOWN EVOContinue reading “Tuesday (4.30.2019)”

Monday (4.29.2019)

MONDAY (4.29.2019):  Drag legend Frankie Cocktail is remembered and celebrated at Lips; Viva Vidalia, Senerio & Ruby Fox join Will Sheridan for a DJ P_A_T birthday edition of BPM at Metro; Cacophony Daniels joins the Randy Andys onstage at Pangea before hosting Broadway Mondays at Hardware; lesbian standup comedy at Stonewall; the Queens Karaoke ChallengeContinue reading “Monday (4.29.2019)”

Sunday (4.28.2019)

SUNDAY (4.28.2019):  It’s the Brooklyn Nightlife Awards at 3 Dollar Bill, followed by Thotyssey’s unofficial afterparty edition of Viva Vidalia at the nearby Vault! Meanwhile: the Miss Gay NY United States pageant at Offside Tavern; the Cherrys on the Bay Stonewall Invasion; Battle Hymn at Flash Factory; Cakes Da Killa at Kings Beer Hall; SchwaContinue reading “Sunday (4.28.2019)”

On Point With: Sweaty Eddie

Also a brilliant, award-winning visual artist and animator, this fairly new drag performer has taken both Brooklyn and Manhattan by storm as a distinct character with a very specific (but still evolving) point of view. Thotyssey gets their Creep on with the delightfully perverse nebbish Sweaty Eddie! Thotyssey: Eddie, hello! Thanks so much for talking toContinue reading “On Point With: Sweaty Eddie”

On Point With: DJ Kandylion

A longtime resident beatmaster of both super-successful partymakers Hot Rabbit and the newer, all-inclusive brand XOXA, DJ Kandylion gives Thotyssey an origin story, an account of today’s nightlife scene and a taste of things to come. Thotyssey: Kandylion, hello! Thanks for chatting today! So, recently you were spinning an Earth Day party at Jupiter Disco…Continue reading “On Point With: DJ Kandylion”

Wake Up, Bitch! (4.27-28.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY BIZARRE Brunch with King Ivy (BK): CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch FRESCO’S CANTINA (Astoria): Murderino podcast brunch with Gloria Swansong & Golden Delicious INTERMEZZO (Chelsea): Brunch with Tina Burner LA PULPERIA EAST (UES): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz TAILFEATHER (BK): Brunch with Flower Tortilla, Patsy InDecline &Continue reading “Wake Up, Bitch! (4.27-28.2019)”

Friday (4.26.2019)

FRIDAY (4.26.2019):  The Mr(s) BK pageant finale at 3 Dollar Bill; Dezi 5performs at the Bitter End; Ceremony house music party at Schimanski; Jon Ali spins a Kylie / Carly worshipfest at SoHo House; Papi Juice at Elsewhere; Heaven on Earth at China Chalet; and more! UPTOWN / BRONX CASTRO: Latin party (10pm) BOXERS WH:Continue reading “Friday (4.26.2019)”

Thursday (4.25.2019)

What’s going on before, during and after tonight’s episode of “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” THURSDAY (4.25.2019):  The Miss Barracuda finale; The Assassins take over Therapy; a Bowie tribute at The Rosemont; Vivacious joins Shequida at Hardware; Fire In The Hole at Nowhere; Phi Phi O’Hara and the cast of QUEEN pay tribute to the movies at Industry;Continue reading “Thursday (4.25.2019)”

Where to Watch Drag Race Ep. 9

Here is a list of venues in NYC that will screen tonight’s episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race, naming viewing party hosts where applicable. Showtime: 9pm – 10:30pm. Some venues may additionally screen the “Untucked” aftershow segment from 10:30pm-11pm. UPTOWN AT THE WALLACE: Vanna Deux & Lagoona Bloo BOXERS WH: Brita Filter TBA HARLEM NIGHTS: Madison Banks SUITE: DivinityContinue reading “Where to Watch Drag Race Ep. 9”

Wednesday (4.24.2019)

WEDNESDAY (4.29.2019):  DJ Skype Williams spins a new night at No Bar with drag performances; Joey Arias returns to the Beechman; Jessica Rose & friends bring Glitter Ball to Gold Sounds; Honey Davenport is back at ReBar; Rify Royalty joins the gals of OOPS at the Rosemont; and more! UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: Karaoke withContinue reading “Wednesday (4.24.2019)”

Tuesday (4.23.2019)

  TUESDAY (4.22.2019): a new drag and cabaret showcases featuring gender non-comformers at The Footlight in Ridgewood; Jasmine Rice guest hosts at Therapy; Lady SinAGaga hosts a post-Passover STRUT at Acme; and more! UPTOWN EVO LOUNGE: Enigma Tuesdays (8pm) TOOLBOX: TRL with singer Carla Bordonada (8:30pm) BOXERS WH: Karaoke with Sucia (9pm) ALIBI: Take It BackContinue reading “Tuesday (4.23.2019)”

X-Rayed Sex: “5 Sex Toys Marketed To Females, But Males Can Enjoy 2019”

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a bi-monthly column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. Back in May 2017, I wrote an article listing 6 sex toys that are marketed to females,Continue reading “X-Rayed Sex: “5 Sex Toys Marketed To Females, But Males Can Enjoy 2019””

Monday (4.22.2019)

MONDAY (4.22.2019):  The Queens Karaoke Challenge continues tonight at Albatross, Cacophony Daniels hosts solo at Hardware, Brita Filter is joined by Izzy Uncut tonight at Boxers Washington Heights, and more! UPTOWN TOOLBOX: Charity bingo (9pm) BOXERS WH: Brita Filter & Rosé Izzy Uncut (10pm) SUITE: Glam Gavin’s karaoke (10pm) WEST END: Open mic (10pm) HELL’S KITCHEN BOXERS HK: Poker withContinue reading “Monday (4.22.2019)”

On Point With: Kay Day

For decades, NYC counterculture has traditionally made superstars out of performers like Kentucky-born Kay Day. The template is there: sexy yet-silly screaming punk princess, willfully goofy provocateur, filmmaker on the rise, and just all around fun as fuck. And while it’s true that most of today’s gay-bies only acknowledge drag queens as recognizable nightlifers… well,Continue reading “On Point With: Kay Day”

Wake Up, Bitch! (4.20-21.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY BIZARRE Brunch with King Ivy (BK): CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch THE DAKOTA (UWS): Brunch with Vivica Galactica & Whendy Whaxwood DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch with Magenta ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch FRESCO’S CANTINA (Astoria): Brunch with Gloria Swansong & Golden Delicious INTERMEZZO (Chelsea): Brunch with Tina Burner LA PULPERIA EAST (UES): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz SUNDAY BIZARREContinue reading “Wake Up, Bitch! (4.20-21.2019)”

Friday (4.19.2019)

FRIDAY (4.19.2019):  An interesting “double event” at Casa / Club 51: Casa De Moda ballroom and This Free Life 18+! Meanwhile: the FCGN nudist party returns to Rockbar, while RUFFHOUSE’s spring gear party surfaces at Nowhere; Round 3 of MR(S) BK at Bizarre; Detoxx Busti-ae hosts a Caribbean Pride party in Brooklyn; Pam Ann returnsContinue reading “Friday (4.19.2019)”

New From Honey Davenport!

The sky is the limit for this busy bee! New York’s own Honey Davenport has been spreading her wings all over the world since her turn on RuPaul’s Drag Race this season (she’s at Roscoe’s in Chicago tonight and tomorrow), and now there are some new, slayworthy things coming our way from the Hive. Firstly, MissContinue reading “New From Honey Davenport!”