Monday (3.2.2026)

MONDAY (3.2.2026) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN SUITE: "Femmes & Friends" standup comedy (7pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: Movie night (8pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Virgo Rising (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RITZ: Nia Maya with Queen David & Bonnie Bonfiya (7pm);Pietra Parker with DJ Brunno Almeida (10pm) ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB:Continue reading "Monday (3.2.2026)"

On Point With: Stevie Dicks

A drag performer, hair stylist, photographer and graphic designer, Stevie Dicks is swinging into March with gigs and an engagement! [Cover photo: MCP Photo] Thotyssey: Hi Stevie! So February is in our rear view… a shit show month for the country, but how did it treat you personally?Stevie Dicks: Astrologically speaking, February was certainly fullContinue reading "On Point With: Stevie Dicks"

Sunday (3.1.2026)

SUNDAY (3.1.2026) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: "Music Bingo" (5pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat. Misty Mountains (noon) RISE: Brunch feat. Egypt & Holly Box-Springs (noon & 2:30pm); Chicky Gorgina & Marti GouldContinue reading "Sunday (3.1.2026)"

Saturday (2.28.2026)

SATURDAY (2.28.2026) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Virgo Rising (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: DJ dance party (11pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE HARD ROCK HOTEL NYC: Brunch feat. Shequida, Athena & Holly Box-Springs (noon) RISE:Continue reading "Saturday (2.28.2026)"

X-Rayed Sex: Naked Does Not Always Mean S-E-X

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. In our society, it has come to be that nudity is immediately associated with sex. While I will admit that theContinue reading "X-Rayed Sex: Naked Does Not Always Mean S-E-X"

Thursday (2.26.2026)

THURSDAY (2.26.2026) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX UES BAR: Bingo or Karaoke feat. AndrogyNY (8pm) TOOLBOX: "Throwback Thursday" (9pm) SUITE: Moxy Cillin (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Trappy Hour" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE FRAMES: Game night feat. Shane Cherry (5pm) SHOPS @ COLUMBUS CIRCLE: "Voss Events: Cupid'sContinue reading "Thursday (2.26.2026)"

Wednesday (2.25.2026)

WEDNESDAY (2.25.2026) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Elle Barto (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE 54 BELOW: RISE: "Mailbox" mixer hosted by Skye Walker (8pm);Bootsie LeFaris, Lexington Banks, Pattaya Hart, Brenda Dharling & Skye Walker (11pm) HUSH: [downstairs]Continue reading "Wednesday (2.25.2026)"

On Point With: Destiny

This Vietnamese-American beauty (and PhD-to-be) is your destination queen for February's end: the divine Ms. Destiny! [Cover photo: Davide Laffe] Thotyssey: Destiny, hello! Thanks for chatting today! Assuming you're in NYC today, how are you enjoying this Winter Wonderland? Destiny: I'm happy to have a snow day in to cuddle with my cats and tryContinue reading "On Point With: Destiny"

Tuesday (2.24.2026)

TUESDAY (2.24.2026) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Moxy Cillin (9pm) TOOLBOX: Karaoke hosted by Matzah Belle Soup (9pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Strip Teaz" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RISE: Bingo feat. Paige Turner (6:30pm);Karaoke feat. Emily McNamara (10pm) GREEN ROOM 42: Nia Maya: Take Me HomeContinue reading "Tuesday (2.24.2026)"

On Point With: Brian Halligan

A longtime beatmaster of the Boston area, DJ Brian Halligan is bringing the Brooklyn edition of his raunchy party "Daddy-O" back to C'mon Everybody this month. Thotyssey: Brian, hello! Happy snow day! You're Boston based -- is it snowing there? Brian Halligan: Not yet... but later today! Fun! So when you are not DJing, preparingContinue reading "On Point With: Brian Halligan"

Monday (2.23.2026)

MONDAY (2.23.2026) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. Notice: due to ongoing weather and snow removal issues, some events may be cancelled or postponed this evening. Check with individual venues for updates. UPTOWN SUITE: "Femmes & Friends" standup comedy (7pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: Movie night (8pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Virgo Rising (10pm) HELL'SContinue reading "Monday (2.23.2026)"

Sunday (2.22.2026)

SUNDAY (2.22.2026) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. Note: due to projected increment weather, events listed below may be cancelled or postponed and venues may close. Please check with individual venues before attending an event. UPDATE: There is a citywide travel ban implemented tonight starting at 9pm. UPTOWN / BRONXContinue reading "Sunday (2.22.2026)"

Thursday (2.19.2026)

THURSDAY (2.19.2026) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX UES BAR: Bingo or Karaoke feat. AndrogyNY (8pm) TOOLBOX: "Throwback Thursday" (9pm) SUITE: Moxy Cillin with Bianca Star, Amanda Pörq, Hibiscus & DJ Catrina Lovelace (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Trappy Hour" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE FRAMES: Game night feat.Continue reading "Thursday (2.19.2026)"

On Point With: Big Man Sav

A previous Queer Talent Show winner in Brooklyn, multitalented draglesque star Big Man Sav is serving masc / femme beauty in the post-Valentines Day era while saying goodbye to an important local venue. [Cover photo: @shotsbysavoca] Thotyssey: Hello BMS, thanks for chatting today! How was your Valentines Day? Big Man Sav: It was great! HowContinue reading "On Point With: Big Man Sav"

Wednesday (2.18.2026)

WEDNESDAY (2.18.2026) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Elle Barto (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE 54 BELOW: Vanessa Williams (7pm) HUSH: "Hot Issue" K-Pop dance competition hosted by SNIX with Shia Ho &Continue reading "Wednesday (2.18.2026)"

Bar Babe of the Month: Hayden at Flaming Saddles

One of Flaming Saddles' beloved bar dancing spirit servers, Hayden is the Cosmo Queen of Hells Kitchen! Bar that I work at: Flaming Saddles How long I've worked there: It will be 10 years this summer! Can't believe it! What are my shifts: Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights, 8pm-4am What makes this bar great: FlamingContinue reading "Bar Babe of the Month: Hayden at Flaming Saddles"