Tuesday (6.8.2019)

TUESDAY (6.8.2019):  Thotyssey can't wait to catch one of our faves Heidi Haux's reprise of "First Haux," tonight at The Duplex! Meanwhile: a new gogo night premieres at Rockbar; Zarria returns to Gay College Tuesdays at The Ritz; Icon Project's Madonna Pride Party at Barracuda; Theydy Bedbug & friends are Wannabes at The Rosemont; and more!Continue reading "Tuesday (6.8.2019)"

Bar Babe of the Month: Josh at The Vault

You'll want to get yourself locked in The Vault with manager / bartender Josh! Bar that I work at: I manage and bartend at The Vault in Bushwick. How long I've worked there: since we rebranded in February. What are my shifts: I’m around most days but usually behind the bar Monday/ Tuesday/ Saturday. What makesContinue reading "Bar Babe of the Month: Josh at The Vault"

Saturday (6.1.2019)

SATURDAY (6.1.2019): Happy Pride Month! Tonight: Asbury Park Pride with Scarlet Envy, Naomi Smalls & Jolina Jasmine at The House of Independents;  Shuga Cain premieres her new stage show at the Beechman; YAS Mama at C'Mon Everybody; M.E.A.T. at 3 Dollar Bill; a pet benefit at the Cherry Grove Community House; Miss Ogeny & LemonContinue reading "Saturday (6.1.2019)"

Wake Up, Bitch! (6.1-2.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch CHERRY'S ON THE BAY (FI): Brunch COWGIRL SEAHORSE (SSSeaport): Brunch with Blake Deadly & Baby Love DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch OSCAR WILDE (Chelsea): *NEW* Brunch with Jasmine Rice LA PULPERIA EAST (UES): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz TALDE (NJ): Brunch withContinue reading "Wake Up, Bitch! (6.1-2.2019)"

Friday (5.31.2019)

FRIDAY (5.31.2019):  Scarlet Envy & Epiphany host the 5th Anniversary of Hella at Metro; Peppermint & Yuhua Hamasaki perform at the 50th anniversary of Callen-Lorde at Union Park; a rock girl party at C'Mon Everybody features Wednesday Westwood & Horrorchata; Untitled Queen hosts the unofficial Bikini Kill afterparty edition of BitchNasty at The Rosemont; BabyContinue reading "Friday (5.31.2019)"

Thursday (5.30.2019)

What's going on before, during and after tonight's episode of "RuPaul's Drag Race." THURSDAY (5.30.2019):  A porn-tastic edition of Sassy Frass' Thunderwear party at Rockbar is sponsored by Cockyboys tonight; Michael Musto and a panel of nightlife A-Listers discuss the state of the biz at Town Stages; Fire Island show premieres by Ariel Sinclair, FiFi DuBoisContinue reading "Thursday (5.30.2019)"

Where to Watch Drag Race Episode# HOLY SHIT IT’S FINALLY FUCKING OVER

Here is a list of venues in NYC that will screen tonight’s finale episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race, naming viewing party hosts where applicable. Showtime:  9pm. UPTOWN AT THE WALLACE: Vanna Deux & Lagoona Bloo BOXERS WH: Brita Filter HARLEM NIGHTS: TBA SUITE: Divinity Banks TOOLBOX: Jacqueline Dupree WEST END: Miz Diamond Wigfall HELL'S KITCHEN ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB: ZetaContinue reading "Where to Watch Drag Race Episode# HOLY SHIT IT’S FINALLY FUCKING OVER"

Monday (5.27.2019)

MONDAY (5.27.2019):  Happy Memorial Day! Marti Gould Cummings, Brita Filter, Kizha Carr, Tina Burner & Sherry Pie stop by for a live recording of Bob the Drag Queen;s podcast "Sibling Rivalry" at Sony Hall; Fire Island show premieres from Busted, Ariel Sinclair, Ben Cameron and Pixie Aventura; Heidi Haux's "First Haux" returns with updated scenes to the Duplex, followed by Chandilier'sContinue reading "Monday (5.27.2019)"

On Point With: Darker Link

Your current reigning Mr. RockBear returns to the venue that sashed him this weekend to host a super sexy affair. Thotyssey goes to the dark side with Gaymer Extraordinaire and sexy Bear Bae Kory "Darker Link" Harmon! Thotyssey: Hello, Kory! So, I understand you just came back from a photo shoot. Darker Link:  It wasContinue reading "On Point With: Darker Link"

Sunday (5.26.2019)

SUNDAY (5.26.2019): Thotyssey's Viva Variety returns to the Vault, for a special Memorial Day edition celebrating DJ Cameron's birthday! Meanwhile, it's birthday kikis for Rosé at Hardware and Paige Turner at Therapy; Battle Hymn at Flash Factory; VIVA at Schimanski; the Homecoming Queen is crowned at the Cherry Grove Community House; the Merrie Cherry's patio BBQContinue reading "Sunday (5.26.2019)"

X-Rayed Sex: “When I Masturbate”

*NSFW NSFW NSFW* By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a bi-monthly column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. Growing up in a religious household, realizing there is nothing wrong with masturbation is aContinue reading "X-Rayed Sex: “When I Masturbate”"

Saturday (5.25.2019)

SATURDAY (5.25.2019):  Thotyssey returns to the judge's seat at the Ace Hotel for the latest Lady Liberty drag competition, hosted by Brita Filter & Rosé! Meanwhile: KUNST at Elsewhere; more Fire Island premieres from Porsche, Brenda Dharling and Bootsie LeFaris, plus special shows from Dina Martina & Pam Ann; Ana Matronic spins Wet Noise at Nublu; LaboratoryContinue reading "Saturday (5.25.2019)"

Wake Up, Bitch! (5.25-26.2019)

Your guide to the weekend’s queerest brunches and early events. SATURDAY BLUE WHALE (FI): Voss Events Brunch with Bootsie LeFaris, Jada Valenciaga & Epiphany CAFETERIA (Chelsea): Brunch CHERRY'S ON THE BAY (FI): Brunch DEEP END (Ridgewood Qns) Brunch ELMO (Chelsea): Brunch INTERMEZZO (Chelsea): Brunch with Tina Burner LA PULPERIA EAST (UES): Brunch with Ritzy Bitz SUNDAY 3 DOLLAR BILL (BK): TBAContinue reading "Wake Up, Bitch! (5.25-26.2019)"