X-Rayed Sex: “Still Saying ‘Clean’ in 2017?”

By LeNair Xavier A monthly column by Thotyssey’s favorite ex-pornstar and current sexpert. We live in an age where too many are quick to abbreviate. Never fully understanding the ramifications of those abbreviations. Case in point, in 2017, gay males are still referring to whether one is HIV- as being “clean”. They go on allContinueContinue reading “X-Rayed Sex: “Still Saying ‘Clean’ in 2017?””

X-Rayed Sex: “Sex & A Drag Queen’s Manhood”

By LeNair Xavier A monthly column by Thotyssey’s favorite ex-pornstar and current sexpert. “A femme in the streets, a butch in the sheets.” I first heard this statement in reference to drag queens, and how they’re said to usually be tops. While being a top should be of no significance to judging a male’s manhood, beContinueContinue reading “X-Rayed Sex: “Sex & A Drag Queen’s Manhood””

X-Rayed Sex: “Many Black Tops… So Many Non-Black Bottoms”

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a bi-monthly column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. Are you a non-black total bottom, but will only have sex with black males? Are youContinueContinue reading “X-Rayed Sex: “Many Black Tops… So Many Non-Black Bottoms””