THURSDAY (11.4.2021) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX 4WEST LOUNGE: "Trappy Hour" (5pm)TOOLBOX: Petti Cash (8pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ Poison Ivy (10pm)IDENTITY: "Tidday Thursday" (10pm)ALIBI: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN BROADWAY COMEDY CLUB: "Yaaas! Fest: NY Queer Comedy Festival" (6pm)THE Q: [1st Fl] Jasmine Kennedie (7pm);[3rd Fl] Drag Race UK viewing partyContinue reading "Thursday (11.4.2021)"
X-Rayed Sex: ” Do Trans Males Top Cis Males?”
By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a bi-monthly column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. A recent backroom tryst at a bar made me have to pose the title question. I sawContinue reading "X-Rayed Sex: ” Do Trans Males Top Cis Males?”"
Wednesday (11.3.2021)
WEDNESDAY (11.3.2021) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: AndrogyNY & Jacklynn Hyde (8pm)IDENTITY: Karaoke (8pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: Game night (8pm) HELL'S KITCHEN THE Q: [1st Fl] Castrata (6pm);[1st Fl] "Juicy" standup comedy night hosted by Dave Mizzoni (7pm);[1st Fl] Pianist James Oblak (8pm);[2nd Fl] DJs Stiletto & Boyish Charm (9pm);[1st Fl] Michelle Dowdy & Drew Wutke with Jesse Luttrell (11pm);[3rdContinue reading "Wednesday (11.3.2021)"
Tuesday (11.2.2021)
TUESDAY (11.2.2021) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (6pm)IDENTITY: "Latin & Urban night" feat. DJ Max Damian (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN THE Q: [1st Fl] Gloria Swansong with Hanukah Lewinsky (7pm);[1st Fl] Jasmine Rice LaBeija & Kizha Carr (9pm);[1st Fl] Lance Horne (10pm)ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB: "Level Up" geekyContinue reading "Tuesday (11.2.2021)"
On Point With: Joe Fiore
Originally beginning as a modest fundraiser, the New York-conceived, world renown bear circuit party (one of the first of its kind) Furball is returning to its hometown this weekend... and the man behind it all is Joe Fiore! Thotyssey: Hello Joe! Thanks for chatting today! How was your Halloween? Joe Fiore: Hi there... it wasContinue reading "On Point With: Joe Fiore"
Monday (11.1.2021)
MONDAY (11.1.2021) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Standup comedy (8pm)TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Phoebe Jeebies (9pm)IDENTITY: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN HARDWARE: "Broadway Mondays" feat. VJ OhRicky playing musical clips (6pm);Jacklynn Hyde & Holly Box-Springs (9pm)410 W 47TH ST: "SCUM: Gush Mondays" (6pm)THE Q: [1st Floor] Lyra Vega (6pm);[1st Floor] Tim Young (8pm);[3rd Floor] Selma Nilla with Skye Walker, Jax & PeachezContinue reading "Monday (11.1.2021)"
Halloween (10.31.2021)
SUNDAY (10.31.2021) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX CECIL STEAKHOUSE: Brunch feat. FiFi DuBois with Agave L'Amour (2pm) TRYON PUBLIC HOUSE: Sucia with Skrawberry, Sara Veza & DJ Casa De Galindo (4:30pm)4WEST LOUNGE: Lounge party feat. Chavis (5pm)TOOLBOX: Baddie Longlegs & DJ Thomas Trinity (6pm)HARLEM NIGHTS: "Sundaze" (7pm)ALIBI: "Sin Sunday"Continue reading "Halloween (10.31.2021)"
Saturday (10.30.2021)
SATURDAY (10.30.2021) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX 4WEST LOUNGE: Lounge party feat. Chavis (5pm)IKONIC SPORTS BAR: Sitanya Face & Diamante Almaz (9pm)IDENTITY: Misty Mountains (10pm)SUITE: Octavia Anyae (10pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ Ivory Snow (10pm)TOOLBOX: DJ Thomas Trinity (10pm)ALIBI: DJ 500K (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat. Misty MountainsContinue reading "Saturday (10.30.2021)"
Friday (10.29.2021)
FRIDAY (10.29.2021) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX 4WEST LOUNGE: "Flirt Fridays" feat. Chavis (5pm)TRIAD: Dorothy Bishop's Dozen Divas Halloween Special (7pm)SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: "Shirtz Vs Skins" (10pm)TOOLBOX: DJ JRoc (10pm)IDENTITY: Kelly KaBoom (11pm)ALIBI: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN SECRET ROOM: "Lucky Chengs Drag Dinner" feat. Andora TeteeContinue reading "Friday (10.29.2021)"
Thursday (10.28.2021)
THURSDAY (10.28.2021) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX HARLEM NIGHTS: "Trappy Hour" (5pm)TOOLBOX: Petti Cash (8pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ Poison Ivy (10pm)IDENTITY: "Tidday Thursday" (10pm)ALIBI: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN THE Q: [1st Fl] Jasmine Kennedie (7pm);[3rd Fl] Drag Race UK viewing party (8pm);[2nd Fl] DJ Frankie Sharp & Mitch Ferrino with gogo boys (9pm);[3rd Fl]Continue reading "Thursday (10.28.2021)"
Wednesday (10.27.2021)
WEDNESDAY (10.27.2021) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: AndrogyNY & Jacklynn Hyde (8pm)IDENTITY: Karaoke (8pm)HARLEM NIGHTS: "Uptown Stripdown" burlesque feat. Stella Nova with Abby Fantastic, Miss Aurora Boobrealis, Totally Uncensored & Right Now Rouge (8pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: Bambina the Don Diva with King Ivy (8pm) HELL'S KITCHEN THE Q: [1st Fl] Castrata (6pm);[3rd Fl] Play Live pornstarContinue reading "Wednesday (10.27.2021)"
1 Thot Minute with Dreama Belle
Although she's more of a multi-state queen these days, this Virginia-born performer is back hosting a special Halloween show in fairly magical NYC neighborhood. Thotyssey: Hello again Dreama, long time no see! How is post-lockdown life treating you these days? Dreama Belle: Hello, hello! It's treating me well! It feels wonderful to have entered backContinue reading "1 Thot Minute with Dreama Belle"
Tuesday (10.26.2021)
TUESDAY (10.26.2021) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (6pm)IDENTITY: "Latin & Urban night" feat. DJ Max Damian (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN THE Q: [1st Fl] Gloria Swansong Phoebe Jeebies with Hanukah Lewinsky (7pm);[3rd Fl] Witch Perfect starring Tina Burner, Bootsie LeFaris & Tammy Spanx (7pm)[1st Fl] Jasmine Rice LaBeija & KizhaContinue reading "Tuesday (10.26.2021)"
Monday (10.25.2021)
MONDAY (10.25.2021) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Standup comedy (8pm)TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Phoebe Jeebies (9pm)IDENTITY: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN HARDWARE: "Broadway Mondays" feat. VJ OhRicky playing musical clips (6pm);Jacklynn Hyde & Holly Box-Springs (9pm)410 W 47TH ST: "SCUM: Gush Mondays" (6pm)THE Q: [1st Floor] Lyra Vega (6pm);[3rd Floor] Daniel Gold's "Queens for a Cause: TricksContinue reading "Monday (10.25.2021)"
On Point With: Gioconda
A costuming genius, TikTok star, Lucky Chengs drag favorite and multimedia artist extraordinaire who's become a New Yorker after a terrifying ordeal in her home country, Russian born Gioconda (that's another name for the Mona Lisa, the world's most famous painting) is now obtaining a larger and well-deserved cult of admirers every day. Thotyssey: HelloContinue reading "On Point With: Gioconda"
Sunday (10.24.2021)
SUNDAY (10.24.2021) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX CECIL STEAKHOUSE: Brunch feat. FiFi DuBois & Jax (2pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: Lounge party feat. Chavis (5pm)HARLEM NIGHTS: "Sundaze" (7pm)ALIBI: "Sin Sunday" gogo boys (9pm)SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ JD (10pm)IDENTITY: Latin night (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN LAContinue reading "Sunday (10.24.2021)"
Saturday (10.23.2021)
SATURDAY (10.23.2021) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX 4WEST LOUNGE: Lounge party feat. Chavis (5pm)IDENTITY: Misty Mountains (10pm)SUITE: Octavia Anyae (10pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ Ivory Snow (10pm)TOOLBOX: DJ Thomas Trinity (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat. Misty Mountains Catrina Lovelace with Hibiscus (noon)HASWEL GREEN'S: Brunch trivia feat. Jacklynn Hyde (2pm)TITO MURPHY'S:Continue reading "Saturday (10.23.2021)"
On Point With: Mel Lennon
A very sexy and soulful addition to NYC's burgeoning queer music scene whose debut EP "OVERthinking Out LOUD" is making its mark after dropping just last month, German-born Mel Lennon is--by every definition--one to watch, and one to listen to. Thotyssey: Hello Mel! We're in the spooky season... are you a Sexy Halloween or aContinue reading "On Point With: Mel Lennon"
Friday (10.22.2021)
FRIDAY (10.22.2021) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX 4WEST LOUNGE: "Flirt Fridays" feat. Chavis (5pm)SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm)TOOLBOX: DJ JRoc (10pm)IDENTITY: Kelly KaBoom (11pm)ALIBI: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN SECRET ROOM: "Lucky Chengs Drag Dinner" feat. Nicky Ottav (6pm)HARDWARE: Lagoona Bloo Kiki Ball-Change (7pm);"SuperContinue reading "Friday (10.22.2021)"
Thursday (10.21.2021)
THURSDAY (10.21.2021) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX HARLEM NIGHTS: "Trappy Hour" (5pm)TOOLBOX: Petti Cash (8pm)LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ Poison Ivy (10pm)ALIBI: TBAIDENTITY: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN BROADWAY COMEDY CLUB: "Yaaas! Fest: NY Queer Comedy Festival" (6pm)THE Q: [1st Fl] Jasmine Kennedie (7pm);[3rd Fl] Drag Race UK viewing party (8pm);[3rd Fl]Continue reading "Thursday (10.21.2021)"
Thotyssey 