X-Rayed Sex: “6 Sex Toys That Can Please Men, But Marketed To Women”

By LeNair Xavier

A monthly column by Thotyssey’s favorite ex-pornstar and current sexpert.


In case you didn’t know, in the sex toy industry, May is known as Masturbation May. While I, and I’m sure just about every male (regardless of orientation) don’t need a specified month to celebrate masturbation, let’s give it a go-around today by me listing something different.

Six sex toys marketed to females, but can easily be used by males. For I have always said that the sex toy industry can be too gender-specific in its marketing for its own good. And this list will definitely prove my point.

Rabbit vibrators are always marketed for female buyers. However, most can easily be used as an anal sex toy. In fact, one made my list of videos for my Nude Dude Review. For the clitoral stimulator gives the toy 1) a base (which is needed for any anal sex toy), and 2) a stimulator for the perineum (a.k.a. taint). So my first two choices are rabbit vibrators.

1) Nova

This is another rabbit-style vibrator, but is a bit different from the Iconic Rabbit II in its features. For one, the stimulator meant for the clitoris is way more flexible than that of most rabbit vibrators. So a male using this vibrator anally can go deeper inside than with other rabbit vibrators. And also, the more flexible clitoral stimulator can be leaned against either the perineum and/or the testicles.

Also, there is an app called We-Connect that you can sync the Nova to. With it, not only can you control the Nova’s various vibration patterns, but you can also create vibration patterns.

2) Bonnie & Clyde

Being that females are not visually stimulated, the look of this toy is also a draw for any gay male bottom. For correct me if I’m wrong, but doesn’t the Bonnie & Clyde look like a hot pink dick and balls with one of Oxballs’ special cockrings on it? Exactly. So it makes you wonder, was this an undercover gay male sex toy?

As for mechanical features, the Bonnie & Clyde has 10 speeds and 10 vibration patterns. And to add to its appeal, it also can be worked with a remote.

3) Transformer

I reviewed this once for my Nude Dude Review, so I don’t feel the need to go too much  into what’s good about it. The Transformer does exactly what it name says…. It TRANSFORMS.

It can be a rabbit, internal, g-spot, clitoral vibe, double-ended vibrating dildo, anal toy, or cockring. Or a vibrating tail for cosplay. Or my personally created combo of a crotch vibe-vibrating cockring-vibrating butt plug.

All of the aforementioned possibilities show that the Transformer has no limits regarding gender, relationship status, or sexual orientation.

 Many toys marketed for clitoral use can easily be used on the head of a male’s dick. After all, the clitoris is actually the female equivalent of the male penis. Hence why when I ask females customers if they’re primarily stimulated internally, externally, or both, many females say externally. So with toys marketed for clitoral use, just put the vibration on your right spot on the frenulum, and be ready to explode.

 4) Bam

The Bam by Vedo looks like a big bullet. It is quite powerful. And with such power, you might be surprised to learn that it’s the cheapest toy on this list. It has 10 vibration patterns to choose from. So you can definitely find a pattern to run along the frenulum and head of your cock to make you bust a nut.

5) Siri 2

The Siri 2 by LELO is made to serve that craving area of stimulation. However, with so many to choose from, I decided on the Siri 2 for this list for some of its very specific features.

The Siri 2 has a nice range of power. It can be light or very strong. Plus, it has 8 vibrations patterns. I personally go often lean towards the patterns that’s synonymous with general penetration, which is a common pattern to go along with most porn.

In addition, the Siri 2 can also vibrate to sound. So be it the sound of your lover’s moans, or if you’re lucky enough to live void of roommates, thereby watch your porn with the volume a good deal up, the Siri 2 can vibrate to the sounds of whatever you’re enjoying.

The Siri 2 can be considered quite a bit pricey. So while it’s understandable if you’re not willing to spend so much for such features, no one would blame you if you did.

6) Rechargeable Magic Wand

You might think I’m trying to make you break your bank suggesting the Rechargeable Magic Wand over the original. The truth is there are some differences that I will point out that will make you understand.

For one, the original has only 2 speeds. 2 POWERFUL speeds of vibration. Speeds at a level that I don’t think you will want against your penis. Especially when the head if made of hard vinyl, which is porous and can therefore hold bacteria. If you go into a sex shop, like The Pleasure Chest and feel a demo, I’m sure you’ll thank me for the warning

Meanwhile, the Rechargeable Magic Wand with 4 settings (instead of 2) can reach the same intensity, but with a nice soft silicone head, which is non-porous. Plus the rechargeable Magic Wand has vibration patterns with its intensity. Hence why I have been able to use the rechargeable up against my frenulum with no problem.

The reason I saved the Rechargeable Magic Wand for last is because there are some attachments for it that can stimulate both your dick and your ass. For instance, The Hummingbird attachment in a couple of my tube site videos can stimulate your cock, while there are also attachments for the Magic Wand that can stimulate the ass and prostate. Stimulation bettered by the aforementioned vibration patterns.

Keep in mind that all of the toys listed are rechargeable, and made of silicone. So using water-based lube, not silicone-based lube, is the way to go. For silicone-based lubes will break down the toy. And in the case of a toy like the Bonnie & Clyde which seems to have a thin layer of silicone on some parts, it makes you even more so need to be mindful of what type of lube you use.

Also, the Bonnie & Clyde and the Rechargeable Magic Wand are not waterproof. The Bonnie & Clyde is splashproof, which means it can get wet, but cannot be submerged in water.

So feel free to roam the section at a sex toy store where you think only females are allowed. You will find that there are things available for your seeking of pleasure through sex toys to make more of the store worthy of your consideration.


LeNair Xavier can be found frequently at the Cock, and at various other exhibitionist-friendly venues. He has a blog called L’s X-Ray Vision, and can be followed on Facebook, Tumblr, Twitter and Instagram. He guest blogs occasionally for Kiroo.com.

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