Saturday (10.4.2025)

SATURDAY (10.4.2025) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX BEACON THEATRE: "Crazy Ex Girl Friend 10(ish) Year Reunion Concert" starring Rachel Bloom, Donna Lynne Champlin, Scott Michael Foster, Vincent Rodriguez III, Pete Gardner, Gabrielle Ruiz, David Hull and Kathryn Burns (7:30pm) SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX:  Virgo Rising (9pm)Continue reading "Saturday (10.4.2025)"

Friday (10.3.2025)

FRIDAY (10.3.2025) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX BEACON THEATRE: "Crazy Ex Girl Friend 10(ish) Year Reunion Concert" feat. Rachel Bloom, Donna Lynne Champlin, Scott Michael Foster, Vincent Rodriguez III, Pete Gardner, Gabrielle Ruiz, David Hull and Kathryn Burns (7:30pm) TOOLBOX: Heidi N. Dix (8pm) SUITE: Karaoke hostedContinue reading "Friday (10.3.2025)"

X-Rayed Sex: Body? Out Of The  House… Brain?… STILL On COVID Lockdown 

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. [Cover photo: Nadzeya Haroshka / Getty Images] About 3.5 years ago, I wrote Sex Space Behavior Post-Lockdown. It examined theContinue reading "X-Rayed Sex: Body? Out Of The  House… Brain?… STILL On COVID Lockdown "

Thursday (10.2.2025)

THURSDAY (10.2.2025) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX UES BAR: Bingo feat. AndrogyNY (8pm) TOOLBOX: "Throwback Thursday" (9pm) SUITE: Moxy Cillin with TBA  (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Trappy Hour" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE FRAMES: Game night hosted by Shane Cherry (6pm) CIRCO: Voss Events' "Haunted Hollywood" installationContinue reading "Thursday (10.2.2025)"

On Point With: Lita Desire Valenciaga

A queen known for hot choreo, live vocals and impressive NYC drag family connections, Lita Desire Valenciaga is now about to give her fellow contestants a run for their money in a major upcoming pageant! Thotyssey: Hello Lita, thanks so much for talking to us today! I know this is a busy time for you,Continue reading "On Point With: Lita Desire Valenciaga"

Wednesday (10.1.2025)

WEDNESDAY (10.1.2025) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Elle Barto (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RED EYE: Poker hosted by Butch Cordora (7pm);"Stage Fright" hosted by Marti Gould Cummings with Marisha Wallace (10pm) RADIO CITY MUSICContinue reading "Wednesday (10.1.2025)"

On Point With: Lexie Legato

A talented Jersey drag up-and-comer, can Lexie Legato become our first Diamond Diva? [Photo credit: Chavel] Thotyssey: Lexie, hello! This is no doubt a busy time for you, but are you getting into your pumpkin spice this Spooky Season yet? Lexie Legato: Hiya Thotyssey! It has in fact been super-duper busy over in my bubbleContinue reading "On Point With: Lexie Legato"

Tuesday (9.30.2025)

TUESDAY (9.30.2025) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Moxy Cillin (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (9pm) TOOLBOX: Karaoke hosted by Matzah Belle Soup (9pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Strip Teaz" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE HUSH: "Z Happy Hour" (5pm) RISE: Bingo feat. Paige Turner (6:30pm);Karaoke feat.Continue reading "Tuesday (9.30.2025)"

Monday (9.29.2025)

MONDAY (9.29.2025) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN SUITE: "Femmes & Friends" standup comedy (7pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: Movie night (8pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Virgo Rising (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RED EYE: Melisma, Castrata & Norma Tears (7pm);"Comic Cabaret" hosted by Charles Osborne (9pm) HARDWARE: Suddenly Audrey (7pm);Jacklynn Hyde & Holly Box-Springs (9pm) TOWN HALL:Continue reading "Monday (9.29.2025)"

On Point With: James Andersen

Breaking into DJing during NYC's peak megaclub era, James Andersen remains a major force in one of the city's most well known gay bars... and beyond! Thotyssey: James, hello! How is September treating you so far? James Andersen: So far it's been great; looking forward to the cooler fall temps! How many years have youContinue reading "On Point With: James Andersen"

Sunday (9.28.2025)

SUNDAY (9.28.2025) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX TRIAD: Pam Ann: Sunday Day Drinking Flight (3pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: DJ Frankie Paradise (5pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo (5pm) 181 CABRINI: Bingo feat. Elise Navy-Dad & Cherry Poppins (6pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUAREContinue reading "Sunday (9.28.2025)"

Saturday (9.27.2025)

SATURDAY (9.27.2025) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX LEHMAN CENTER: Sheila E. with Bernadette Cooper's Klymaxx (8pm) SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX:  Virgo Rising (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) WALNUT BAR (BX): DJs Ultraviolet, Maya Margarita & D-More (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: DJ dance party (11pm) CENTRALContinue reading "Saturday (9.27.2025)"

Friday (9.26.2025)

FRIDAY (9.26.2025) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: Heidi N. Dix (8pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE INDUSTRY: Trivia feat. Jacklynn Hyde (6pm);DJ Nesto with Brenda Dharling (10pm) RED EYE: Gloria Swansong: The Judy ShowContinue reading "Friday (9.26.2025)"

On Point With: Mike Schreder

A young DJ and music professional on the rise known for making sexy parties even sexier: Mike Schreder! Thotyssey: Hi Mike! How is September treating you so far? Mike Schreder: September has been treating me well; I've actually been super busy juggling my day job and DJ gigs. It almost feels like that famous GagaContinue reading "On Point With: Mike Schreder"

Thursday (9.25.2025)

THURSDAY (9.25.2025) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX BISTRO VERDE @ NORDSTROMS: Bingo feat. Linda Simpson (6pm) UES BAR: Bingo feat. AndrogyNY (8pm) TOOLBOX: "Throwback Thursday" (9pm) SUITE: Moxy Cillin with Bianca Star (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Trappy Hour" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE FRAMES: Game night hosted by ShaneContinue reading "Thursday (9.25.2025)"

Wednesday (9.24.2025)

WEDNESDAY (9.24.2025) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX WINNIE SAID: Janae SaisQuoi with Vanity LaVain (8pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Elle Barto (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE GREEN ROOM 42: Pissi Ruins Judy at Carnegie Hall (8pm) RED EYE:Continue reading "Wednesday (9.24.2025)"

On Point With: Eugene Rideher Betta

This Philadelphia cowboy is Drag Wars' first All-Star king, and is conquering more and more of New York: Eugene Rideher Betta! [Cover photo: Davide Laffe] Thotyssey: Hi Eugene, how is September treating you? Eugene Rideher Betta: September has been amazing so far — I've been spending the whole month up here catching a vibe andContinue reading "On Point With: Eugene Rideher Betta"

Tuesday (9.23.2025)

TUESDAY (9.23.2025) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Moxy Cillin (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (9pm) TOOLBOX: Karaoke hosted by Matzah Belle Soup (9pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Strip Teaz" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE HUSH: "Z Happy Hour" (5pm) RISE: Bingo feat. Paige Turner (6:30pm);Karaoke feat.Continue reading "Tuesday (9.23.2025)"