Wednesday (10.4.2023)

WEDNESDAY (10.4.2023) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN NOT A SPEAKEASY: Bingo feat. Saline Dijon (8pm) ALIBI: Karaoke hosted by Lanyé Armön (8pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Holly Wood (10pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN RED EYE: "Thotlight" podcast live taping hosted by Thotyssey & Freddie Cosmo feat. Boy Radio (5pm);Busted (10pm)Continue reading "Wednesday (10.4.2023)"

Tuesday (10.3.2023)

TUESDAY (10.3.2023) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (6pm) TOOLBOX: Karaoke (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ Byrell the Great (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN FRANKIE'S PUB: X-Rated NYC viewing party / Boomer Banks & Max Konner (7pm)Lance Horne (9pm) TERMINAL 5: Raye (8pm) ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB: "Level Up"Continue reading "Tuesday (10.3.2023)"

Monday (10.2.2023)

MONDAY (10.2.2023) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN SUITE: Standup comedy (8pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Phoebe Jeebies (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE BOXERS HK: Poker with Butch Cordora (6pm) HARDWARE: "Broadway Mondays" feat. VJ OhRicky playing musical clips (6pm);Jacklynn Hyde & Holly Box-Springs (9pm) ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB: "Musical Monday Madness" feat. VJContinue reading "Monday (10.2.2023)"

Podcast: Adriana Trenta Serves WIG & So Much More

Freddie & Jim discuss the wall-to-wall legends at the Red Eye premiere party, Jim's Mx. Rockbar judging experience and Freddie's ailments. Then it's time to chat with drag pageant winner, podcast hostess and comedy queen Adriana Trenta! Topics range from: a recent "de-wigging" incident; the glory days of trash reality TV; the challenges of balancingContinue reading "Podcast: Adriana Trenta Serves WIG & So Much More"

Sunday (10.1.2023)

SUNDAY (10.1.2023) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: "Repair the Queen" hosted by Ella Vatour (8:30pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat. Misty Mountains (noon) SECRET ROOM: Lucky Chengs brunchContinue reading "Sunday (10.1.2023)"

Saturday (9.30.2023)

SATURDAY (9.30.2023) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) TOOLBOX: DJ Dave & Heidi N. Dix (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat. Misty Mountains (noon & 2pm) THE SPOT: Brunch feat. Zeta Jones & Jasmine RiceContinue reading "Saturday (9.30.2023)"

Friday (9.29.2023)

FRIDAY (9.29.2023) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. NOTE: Due to weather and flooding conditions, many of these events will be postponed or cancelled. Check with venues directly for more info. Otherwise, stay home and be safe! UPTOWN BEACON THEATRE: Chelsea Handler: Little Big Bitch (8pm) SUITE: Karaoke feat. VictoriaContinue reading "Friday (9.29.2023)"

On Point With: Bhadddbhussy

A queen turned rising podcast star, New York-based Joey "Bhadddbhussy" Geballa is introducing us to his fellow nightlife stars of today and tomorrow care of "Me, Myself And..."! Thotyssey: Why, hello there! Thanks for finding this time for us, I'm sure you're busy, busy, busy as usual… how did September treat you? Bhadddbhussy: September hasContinue reading "On Point With: Bhadddbhussy"

Thursday (9.28.2023)

THURSDAY (9.28.2023) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: "Throwback Thursdays" (8pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: Karaoke (8pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Trappy Hour" (10pm) SUITE: TBA HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB: "JukeVideo" (8pm) FRANKIE'S PUB: Sweaty Eddie, Richard & Senerio with Xaddy Addy (8pm);DJ dance party (10pm) HARDWARE: Lexington Banks & Audrey Phoenix (8pm);KamillaContinue reading "Thursday (9.28.2023)"

X-Rayed Sex: “Is #RawIsLaw A Wrong Law?”

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. The hashtag #RawIsLaw has been around for quite some time. In its initial inception, it was frowned uponContinue reading "X-Rayed Sex: “Is #RawIsLaw A Wrong Law?”"

Wednesday (9.27.2023)

WEDNESDAY (9.27.2023) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN NOT A SPEAKEASY: Bingo feat. Saline Dijon (8pm) ALIBI: Karaoke hosted by Lanyé Armön (8pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Holly Wood (10pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN RED EYE: "Thotlight" podcast live taping hosted by Thotyssey & Freddie Cosmo feat. Adriana Trenta (6pm);Busted (10pm)Continue reading "Wednesday (9.27.2023)"

On Point With: Fancy Feast

One of our great burlesque performers is now also an author, and what a pleasure it is for Thotyssey to acquire so much tea from.... the delicious Fancy Feast! [Cover photo: Ellen Stagg] Thotyssey: Hi Fancy, thanks for chatting with us today! As a former Miss Coney Island, I was wondering if you were inContinue reading "On Point With: Fancy Feast"

Tuesday (9.26.2023)

TUESDAY (9.26.2023) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (6pm) TOOLBOX: Karaoke (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ Byrell the Great (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN FRANKIE'S PUB: Austin Ruffer's "Broadway Video Jukebox" (7pm);Lance Horne (9pm) ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB: "Level Up" geeky name night hosted by Thotyssey & ShaneContinue reading "Tuesday (9.26.2023)"

Monday (9.25.2023)

MONDAY (9.25.2023) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN SUITE: Standup comedy (8pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Phoebe Jeebies (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE BOXERS HK: Poker with Butch Cordora (6pm) HARDWARE: "Broadway Mondays" feat. VJ OhRicky playing musical clips (6pm);Jacklynn Hyde & Holly Box-Springs (9pm) ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB: "Musical Monday Madness" feat. VJContinue reading "Monday (9.25.2023)"

Podcast: Red Eye is Open! No Really! Really, Really! And It’s Amazing

Freddie & Jim are excited for the looooong awaited opening week of Red Eye (the bar where they've been recording Thotlight for over a year), and they share the excitement with their guests today: a pair of the venue's co-owners, Sam Benedict & Taylor Shubert! They boys first chat about the joys, challenges and controversies behind theirContinue reading "Podcast: Red Eye is Open! No Really! Really, Really! And It’s Amazing"

Sunday (9.24.2023)

SUNDAY (9.17.2023) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: "Repair the Queen" hosted by Ella Vatour (8:30pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat. Misty Mountains (noon) SECRET ROOM: Lucky Chengs brunchContinue reading "Sunday (9.24.2023)"

Saturday (9.23.2023)

SATURDAY (9.23.2023) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN 4WEST LOUNGE: Lounge party (5pm) SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) TOOLBOX: DJ Dave & Heidi N. Dix (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat. Misty Mountains (noon & 2pm) THE SPOT: BrunchContinue reading "Saturday (9.23.2023)"

Friday (9.22.2023)

FRIDAY (9.22.2023) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN TRIAD: Doris Dear: Slightly Sondheim (7pm) BEACON THEATRE: Eddie Izzard: The Remix Tour Live (8pm) SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Janae SaisQuoi & DJ JRoc (10pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN 54 BELOW: Cheyenne Jackson (7pm)Continue reading "Friday (9.22.2023)"